When emotions run high, verbal de-escalation cue cards help you stay calm, consistent, and effective in the moment. Use the Verbal De-escalation Cue Cards for individuals or the whole class to reduce verbal load, model co-regulation, and offer small choices that lower resistance. Place on a lanyard, clipboard, or calm corner so the right prompt is always within reach.
- Quick-reference phrases that show empathy, lower tone, and set gentle limits.
- Non-verbal signals (pause, hand raise, lights) to reset attention without calling students out.
- Choice language (“stretch or water?”) that restores control and invites cooperation.
