De-escalation Cue Cards

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October 3, 2025

Pocket-ready visual reminders that keep your words calm and your signals consistent when emotions run high. Use the De-escalation Cue Cards for individuals or the whole class to reduce verbal load, model co-regulation, and offer small choices that lower resistance. Place on a lanyard, clipboard, or calm corner so the right prompt is always within reach.

  • Quick-reference phrases that show empathy, lower tone, and set gentle limits.
  • Non-verbal signals (pause, hand raise, lights) to reset attention without calling students out.
  • Choice language (“stretch or water?”) that restores control and invites cooperation.
De-escalation Cue Cards

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